Does your lover still really love you and ways to help them realise that of course they do!

 

You may question sometimes if your lover still loves you, they may show scorn, even contempt for you,  so it's hard to imagine they still really do love you. You would have to be mad to think their painful comments or actions were masking love.  Or would you? Do they really still love you? Yes they do because  a love spell brings to the fore all the loving feelings they have for you. Perhaps analogous to storing food in a fridge, no matter how hot the day, the milk does not curdle, it lasts. The sell by date is no longer valid, this love will keep indefinitely. Love spells do not allow their love to erode.  Or it gives love a chance to flourish in a heart that may have seemed coldly insensible to you before. 

So why, if they love you, might they on occasion treat you like something malodorous on their shoe? Many reasons, confusion, doubts, fears, possibly even jealousy. They will be jealous of all the people they imagine are now taking up your time, when deep down they want that to be them. 

Once a lover has left you, they know you are free for new love, it goes without saying. But if they feel you are  waiting for them, they have no need to return, to worry and question who is enjoying all the attractions they threw away. That leaves them free to look around for pastures new. 

Your job is to keep them wondering about you. If they are,  they are thinking about you. If they are thinking about you in some ways they are still involved with you.  They should never be certain that you are in fact taking three new and (far better)  lovers.  Certainty that they have a rival can be very dangerous and may well drive them away. 

So be mysterious, let them imagine the worst but never know. They will and that is the best weapon you have, fears giving them  sleepless nights of jealousy and doubt. They will fear that if they have made a mistake and they will fear this, as all lovers always do when they part, that you have now seen the light, glory be and are having a better time than you could have ever of dreamed of with them. In their minds your new lover will be everything they fear they are not. If your ex has a beer belly then you new lover will have a six pack in their nightmares. In their fears your new lover will be an expert in bed and make them look as well equipped as a field mouse. Until they return to you, be careful how your reassure them. Just subtly let them think you are having a great time. You are having the time of your life, you don't need them for that. But remember also never to give them reason to think that you wouldn't have them back or that all routes back to you are blocked. If you try to pull them back, to plead or reason with them to return, however subtly,  they will sense what you are doing and that you need them and they do not want to be needed by you now, not yet. It will make them feel happily free to keep on looking elsewhere. If you are seeming to be having a ball, they have no room for safely knowing they were right to go. You must remove all their security about you. Their insecurities are your new friends. 

If at any time, while you wait for your love spells to come to fruition, you think of trying online dating to provide him or her with some competition, an incentive to fight over you, be very cautious. If your lover should find you on an internet dating site, even if he or she had decided to propose to you, has bought the ring which is so heavy it ruins the line of their pockets, he or she will have second thoughts. To your lover's mind, it is waving new (and of course to their insecurities better) lovers in their face, something you must never do. It will have your lover fleeing faster then if they sat down on a firework and worse, realising, however wrongly that you just are not the one for them. So always be very discreet and mysterious. Do not ever taunt, just give them room to question what you were doing on Saturday night, why weren't you home when they decided to contact you out of the blue.

If you pull your loved one in, they will pull away. If you are seen to be doing nothing, or pulling away, they start to pull you back. We all want what we can't have. So leave them to question if they can get you back and then they will want to. Lovers are very occasionally reunited without the aid of magic. But you will be reunited with your lover by magic if this is what you deeply desire. With your magic aiding you around the clock, you will soon find a regretful, apologetic lover attempting to find new ways to get back into your good books and your heart. After all, unlike you, they don't have magic to help and reassure them and so it won’t be long before they will panic straight back into your loving arms, before that new beefcake god of their nightmares gets to traverse fully your terra incognita.

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